Regardless of what you’re going through in life or where you are, having people on your side helps more than almost anything else. This includes people who can encourage you and have your back and ideally at least one or two who have traveled the same road already and know how to do it well. […]
Parent-Child Relationships
Can I Refuse to Care for an Elderly Parent?
Caring for an elderly parent often feels like an obligation. But, is it really and can you refuse to provide care? Is doing so ever okay?
Why I Refuse To Be My Mother’s Caregiver
I refuse to be my mother’s caregiver. There, I’ve said it. It might be a shocking idea, as we’re taught to love and honor our parents. There’s also this assumption that we will step up and be caregivers. Who else is going to do it? For that matter, I’m a Christian woman and I love […]
Are You Doing Too Much For Your Aging Parents?
Caregivers often have a lot on their plate. Okay… that’s the understatement of the century. All too often, adult children feel overwhelmed and pressured, trying to juggle multiple responsibilities without enough time or energy to do things well. Many of us know that we need to slow down, to take better care of ourselves, but […]
Coping with the Role Reversal when Caring for Aging Parents
The term role reversal often comes up when talking about caregiving. It’s a logical idea, right? Suddenly you’re the one telling your parents what they need to do, trying to cajole them into a doctor’s visit, or even helping them out in the bathroom. How do you cope with this role reversal when caring for […]
The Best Responses When Aging Parents Expect Too Much
Some seniors are independent in their old age, only seeking help when it is absolutely essential or perhaps even resisting assistance entirely. Others fall into the opposite camp, looking for support regularly, sometimes when they don’t even need it. So, what do you do when aging parents expect too much? Providing this support can be […]